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Ask a Man 18 Nov '25: 'Stuck between my family and my partner.'

Anonymous was previously in a long-term relationship and has a child from that relationship.  She feels like she was never really happy in that relationship but stayed in the relationship because her partner was very financially helpful of her and her family, which led to her family pushing her to stay in the relationship even though she wasn’t happy.  She eventually chose herself and realised she has a spiritual calling, through that journey she found a new partner…

Ask a Man 17 Nov '25: 'My partner gets out of control when we fight.'

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now.  When he entered this relationship, he already had 4 children from his previous relationships, they initially agreed that they didn’t want to have more kids but they now have two children together.  His issue is her style of dealing with conflict in their relationship as she gets physically and verbally violent.  The first time she got physical with him, he said to her that he would leave her if she reacts that way again, however, they got into a fight recently and she got physical again and even insulted anonymous’ first born son.  She went away after this fight but she’s now back home and he is struggling to forgive her and move on.

Ask a Man 14 Nov '25: 'My partner doesn't assist me financially.'

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now, they live together and have a child together.  He says they both work, however, she earns more than he does. He adds that he’s very supportive of her and also helps with a lot of the duties in the house, however, she's not very supportive of him, especially when it comes to finances. 

Ask a Man 13 Nov '25: 'My partner thinks I'm not over her cheating on me.'

Anonymous and his current partner have been together since 2010.  Early in their relationship there was an incident where his partner saw him hug his ex while they were at a party and that turned into a conflict between them, they moved on but she never really got over that.  Their relationship became long distance when he moved to another province for work and at some point when he went home he found her behaviour suspicious, confronted her and she confessed to cheating on him because of she felt lonely when he wasn’t around….

Ask a Man 12 Nov '25: 'Is he moving too slow or am I moving too fast?'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2021 when she was doing her final year in varsity, she quickly realised that he was in a relationship while they were in the talking stage and decided not to move forward with a relationship with him.  Years later she reconnected with him but once again they didn’t get into a relationship as she felt like he was still recovering from a recent break-up.  They reconnected again this year and this time around they finally got into a relationship.  He said to her that he’s serious about her and wants to marry her one day but she feels like he’s not acting serious because he doesn’t want her to meet his children right now, just months into their relationship.

Ask a Man 11 Nov '25: 'My new boyfriend's financial burdens are becoming too much.'

Anonymous recently started dating guy and says things between them have moved very fast but she’s starting to pick up that his financial problems are worse than what she thought they were. She’s already in love with him and wants to help but this is all a bit too much for her as his financial problems are draining her pocket.

Ask a Man 10 Nov '25: 'Why am I still with my toxic married boyfriend.?

Anonymous says she’s in her mid thirties and has two children. She met a man earlier this year, they have a twenty-year age gap and things were going well. She had her suspicions about the man being married so she asked him if he was and he admitted that he is married but his wife has cancer, they haven’t been intimate and he is looking for someone to be intimate with.  They continued with their relationship, at some point she fell pregnant but miscarried. She then found out that he was actually also having an affair with his neighbour, so broke things off but they got back together.  Their relationship has since been toxic and has affected her mentally and emotionally.

Ask a Man 07 Nov '25: 'My partner's drinking is taking a toll on me.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now, they have a child together, and he says the relationship has been great for the most part.  His problem is that she’s always going out with her friends and he feels like she’s neglecting him & their relationship. He says she also gets very drunk and isn’t a considerate human being when she gets like that.

Ask a Man 06 Nov '25: 'Is her child mine?'

Anonymous says after his marriage ended he got involved with another lady but quickly realised after they went away together that she’s not the girl for him.  After breaking things off she told him that she was pregnant, they agreed to terminate the pregnancy and went their separate ways. He blocked her after this but unblocked her months later only to realise that she kept the pregnancy.  They were co-parenting well until she moved to another province and started avoiding anonymous. Her strange behaviour and rumours that she was seeing another guy led to him asking for a DNA test.  She agreed to the test but has been dodging it for a couple of years now. He stopped supporting the child as a result of not being sure of paternity. He’s struggling to move on with this big question mark.

Ask A Man 05 Nov '25: 'I'm not sure I've ever loved my husband of 15 years.'

Anonymous says she got married very young, her husband is generally a good guy and her family & friends love him but she’s says something has always been missing in their relationship.  She feels as though her loved ones never really listened to her when she would try to express this. She has now moved out from their home as a result of how she feels in this marriage.

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Ask a Man 03 Nov '25: 'Great sex keeping me in a toxic situationship.'

Anonymous moved to a new province for work purposes, she met a guy at the office, they hit it off and started dating.  She soon realised that this guy has a partner and she is a side to him. She gave him an ultimatum to decide whether he moves forward with her or his partner.  She started engaging with another guy while he was still deciding on them. The guy found out that anonymous was busy with someone else and he got upset especially because she was pregnant.  She terminated the baby as result of all this chaos…

Ask a Man 31 Oct '25: 'Drained by my imprisoned fiancé'

Anonymous’ fiancé got arrested 8 years ago and has been in prison since then.  This situation put a strain on their finances and has affected their relationship. He also got into a seemingly transactional relationship with another woman that he met on social media. He said this is to help them financially but she feels like she’s not benefitting from this.  She feels drained by the situation and is not sure what to do.

Ask a Man 30 Oct '25: 'Have I been a side for 17 years?'

Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now.  He’s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she’s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he’s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him.  Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can’t imagine herself dating anyone else.

Ask a Man 29 Oct '25: 'I think my partner is still with his ex.'

Anonymous has been with her current partner for over a year now and says they had a child together after being together for about a month.  At the beginning of their relationship her partner told her that he had just broken up with the mother of his child. About a month ago she realised that he has actually continued his relationship with the mother of his other child despite being in a relationship  and living with anonymous.  He has now said that relationship with the mother of his other child is over. But she’s struggling to live on from this.

Ask aa Man 28 Oct '25: 'I'm over my boyfriend, and in-love with my girlfriend.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now and in the last two months she’s found herself in a relationship with a woman.  She says he’s been cheating on her but she let all of that go. She feels like she’s discovering herself and her sexuality right now. She’s cheated on him before with other women but this particular relationship is more intense & serious.  Her partner wants to marry her and she doesn’t know what to do.

Ask a Man 27 Oct '25: 'Is he gaslighting me?'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about six years now and says their relationship has been going well and he’s the man she prayed for.  Her problem is that he never pays attention to his phone when he’s out with family and friends and doesn’t give her any attention when she tries to reach him.  They’ve recently had a fight about this and as usual, he’s now giving her silent treatment. They have also been together for 6 years now and she’s yet to meet a member of his family.